Parents may want their children to grow up healthy, confident, and resilient. But between busy schedules, picky eating, endless devices, and trying to get everyone to bed on time, it can feel like a lot. The good news? Small, simple changes at home can make a difference in a child’s well- being. UTMB pediatric specialists are here to help guide the way.
“Routines don’t have to be complicated to be effective,” Dr. Amy Gonzalez, associate professor of pediatrics, said. “Simple, predictable patterns around meals, sleep, and activity help children thrive—and make daily life a little easier for parents, too.”
Here are some expert-backed tips to help your child build healthier habits around screen time, sleep, nutrition, and physical activity.
Why healthy habits matter
Children ages 3–12 are developing rapidly—physically, mentally, and socially. Healthy routines give kids structure, boost emotional well-being, and support strong growth.
“Many of the habits that shape a child’s lifelong health are formed early at home,” Gonzalez said. “Discussing routines like sleep, nutrition and screen time with your pediatrician allows families to take a proactive approach to wellness, not just address concerns when something feels wrong.”
Many families face common challenges:
- Too much screen time
- Bedtime battles and inconsistent routines
- Picky eating or limited food choices
- Difficulty finding time (or motivation!) for physical activity
- Parents don’t need a perfect system—just a plan and a little consistency.
Managing screen time
Digital devices are part of modern childhood, but boundaries help kids develop healthy relationships with technology.
Tips for getting started:
• Set clear daily limits. For most kids, aim for no more than 1–2 hours of recreational screen time.
- Create media-free zones. Keep bedrooms and dinner tables device -free to encourage connection.
- Model balanced tech use. Kids copy what they see—your habits matter.
- Plan screen-free family activities. Board games, outdoor walks, or simple arts and crafts go a long way.
Supporting better sleep
Sleep is one of the most powerful tools for growth, learning, and emotional health.
Try these easy changes:
- Stick to consistent bedtimes and wake times, even on weekends.
- Build a calm bedtime routine—bath, book, lights out.
- Dim lights and turn off screens at least one hour before bed.
- Keep bedrooms cool, dark, and quiet to support high-quality rest.
Helping picky eaters explore healthy foods
If a child avoids veggies or insists on the same three meals, that’s a common issue. Healthy eating doesn’t have to be a fight.
“Making healthy food choices helps your body grow strong, think clearly, and have the energy to play and learn every day,” Dr. Mahwish Khan, pediatric endocrinologist, said. “Many kids go through a picky eating phase, and that’s a normal part of growing up. Food should be fun, not a battle—constant positive exposure and small changes over time are more likely to build healthy habits that last into the future.”
Meal-time strategies:
- Offer choices, not battles. Present two healthy options and let your child choose.
- Include at least one “safe” or familiar food on the plate that your child enjoys alongside new or less preferred options
- Make fruits and vegetables fun. Try colorful “tasting plates,” dips, or shaped cutters.
- Invite kids into the kitchen to help with cooking and preparing food. Helpers are often more willing to try new foods.
- Keep offering foods—rejection is normal. It can take 10–15 exposures for kids to warm up to a new taste.
- Respect hunger and fullness cues.
Allow children to decide when they are full without expectations to finish everything on their plate.
Encouraging daily movement
Kids need activity to support healthy metabolism, strong bones, and emotional balance.